The Mind Lust Domination Style
|All Acts Of Love & Pleasure Are My Rituals
in the words of Pagan, Allura, and Diana
|We enjoy many things in the BDSM lifestyle;
and like anyone else there are certain things
we are less into. Basically we will use this
page to talk about our style, experiences,
and feelings about different fetishes. Let
us describe some of what *WE* enjoy since
that's the point of me doing this site -
OUR PLEASURES. We are also more about the
realistic side of adult conversation; meaning
this is not a fantasy roleplay domination
phone sex line with all the BDSM buzz words.
We a little more sensible than that, and
hopefully you are too.
|We're subtle with domination and with our
sexuality. We understand that to truly dominate
a man that we will need to slowly work our
way into his little life. Before he even
realizes it ... the grip will be so tight
around his mind and heart that he will feel
weak in the knees. The style is a methodical
process and a true mind fuck in every sense
of the word. Don't ever expect any of us
to rush ... because we don't.
We enjoy mystery. We will figure you out.
We will glimpse into your head and take out
information that may seem mundane to you.
It's not, it's all a part of what you will
BECOME. Trust us,we know exactly what we
are doing ... every little plan and conversation
with you is calculated. Aw, did you want
to know the plans? No. Never. You can WANT
things all damn day ... but we will always
be five steps ahead of you.
||Money Slaves - Firstly I totally enjoy financial domination.
With real life slaves - financial abuse is
a part of our negotiation. They send me on
vacation when I feel like going, they buy
me clothes when I need it, I use their bank
accounts at my whim. I enjoy a slave who
wants to show his devotion by putting his
Goddess up on the pedestal she deserves.
On the telephone however, money slaves are
totally different. Don't expect me, don't
ask, and don't think I am immoral enough
to truly abuse your credit card. If I determine
that money slavery is a method, specific
to you, that will allow me to tighten my
grasp on your psyche, I will explore it but
won't exploit it.
Sexual Interrogation and Blackmail Fantasies - Ok here is another one of my favorites.
Now this is a fetish that is different to
many people, so let me tell you the type
that I enjoy since I am the Goddess and you
are supposed to be listening. I enjoy guys
who like to be QUESTIONED… who let me sit
there and ask them anything I want… where
I can pry into their lives and so forth.
Can you find the right words for me? I'll
pry into your entire sexual world. I want
to know your secrets. You will divulge information
that you may have never told anyone else
prior. This fetish for me is a long going
drama that ends up coupled with a "blackmail"
fantasy. I snoop into your life and then
threaten you with blackmail to get what I
want. I dig this fantasy fetish because it's
a "head trip" and those types of
journeys are the ones I enjoy the most. It
suits me. But remember this is a fantasy
- because real blackmail is illegal. So keep
in mind that information you do really share
with me on the phone will be kept confidential.
I am not in the habit of breaking any laws…
but the fantasy part is a blast! I am also
not opposed to being questioned. Ask me anything
you want -- if I am in the mood I will tell
you the answer!
Sensual Domination -Ok call it Romantic Domination, call it
soft domination, call it whatever… this Domme
style is much less hardcore. A hardcore Domme
might use a whip on you and hang you from
the ceiling while leaving her marks behind
on your flesh. A sensual dominant female
might strap you down on the bed and give
you a spanking. Sensual domination is exactly
what it implies - much more sensual, sexy,
romantic, enticing, seductive, and a little
more playful. I am not into CBT or cock and
ball torture for example. I don't want to
use a hammer on your dick - I prefer a cock
ring. You see the difference? I also do not
shout or scream like a hardcore Domme might
Masturbatrix Fun - Well this is when I tell you how I want
you to yank yourself for me. Pretty basic
and simple stuff here. Often I might give
assignments or other types of masturbation
instructions to a slave boy. I consider it
a talent show in a way. It's how you can
show me what a great monkey spanker you are.
I'll be the one to decide if I am impressed
or not. Now here is the catch with it…. If
I am to spend the time telling you what I
want you to do, then you had better do it...
and keep your mouth shut.
Tease and Denial - Your cock NEEDS controlled, don't be ashamed
-- most men's do too. The penis is an organ
with a mind of it's own -- but I can tame
it. Restraint is a lesson well taught because
it keeps that silly male in "check",
and forces him to do things to please me.
I can do and get anything out of a man with
a raging hard-on ... but he doesn't always
get to give me what he'd like to. I will
tease and seduce you with words ... both
of the erotic and dirty persuasion. Once
worked up in my honor... I can let you cum
... or deny you. I can be cruel and take
away the sexy flirtation that led you into
your pumped up aroused state. I will make
my decision long before you'll ever find
out if you can cum. For me it will be sooo
easy to say no. That's one more reason that
I'm smarter than you. It's sooo difficult
for a man to think with aching blue balls
anyway. I can do the thinking instead. I
also have been known by many men with aching
balls to use chastity devices and cold cock
cages to be sure release isn't possible.
And schnookems, we'll talk at the beginning
of our call to see what things we'll use,
as well as to see how far you are really
capable of going. I sure know I can go a
very lonnnnnng way, and will put you to many
teasing little tests. Kiss Kiss.
Jealousy Fantasies - Ever have the naughty daydream of a woman
very sure of her sexuality ... knowing that
she can use it to hurt you? What if our play
time tease involved me seducing another man
in front of you ... your jealousy would be
more than stirred - I can set it on fire.
That can be one fun roleplay for sure. Or
perhaps you become just one of my many tele-subbies
and I can tell you the reality ... that your
infatuation with me is fairly meaningless.
Maybe I'll try to make you jealous by letting
you know the details of my other slaves and
how much more important they are than you.
Don't worry, I won't degrade you when I tell
you - I'll say it so sweetly, so seductively
that you can't help but be jealous.
Cuckold Fantasies - This is one level deeper than a jealousy
fantasy, with much greater humiliation. In
this roleplay, you are my boyfriend or husband,
but of course you can't satisfy me sexually
because you are so *not* a man (possibly
with a woeful tiny dicklet). You will never
again be allowed to bore me with your sexual
ineptitude. I make it well known to you and
our friends that I have needs and intend
to fulfill them. I will parade my lover(s)
in front of you and make you my fluffer boy
by using you to arouse him for me. You will
watch from the corner while I am in a sexual
rapture that you have never witnessed while
with you. Finally, I may allow you to use
your mouth to clean me up after my lover
has filled me up or drenched me. The only
sexual release you will experience from now
on will be by way of your hand (usually only
when I allow you).
Love Fantasies - I can tease, torment, seduce, and DISRUPT.
I can be so sensual and sweet that it might
be hard for you not to adore me. I can make
you feel a whirlwind of emotions. You will
feel your sensitive side being exposed to
me and at first I will seem to appreciate
it. Somehow once you begin to declare your
deepening emotion to me on your little sleeve,
I may lose interest like a fickle bitch.
Your love is only a game to me, though I
will demand and take it from you. It is then
that my toying with you will be at its peak.
You will stare at my photos and pine for
me. You will never feel good enough, I'll
make sure of it.
BDSM Domination Hot Talk - Ok what I mean by this is maybe you just
want someone of like-mind to share discussions
with of the lifestyle. Maybe you've been
to see femdoms in Real Time and just want
to degrade yourself by letting me pry. Maybe
you want to discuss the Erotic Hypnosis fetish.
Maybe you want to ponder the meaning of perversions.
I'm up for it... I enjoy talking in a real
Fantasy Phone Sex Girlfriend - You need a woman, and it's apparent a
woman can clean up your life and straighten
you out. You aren't good at making decisions,
and you need a woman to answer to. I'm talking
more reality here than the fantasy type of
stuff ... you need me several times per week
maybe, not only for your sex life ... but
for you entire life. I'll be your girlfriend
on the telephone. You will ask me permission
to go drinking with your buddies, I'll decide
and pick out your clothes, I'll tell you
to get rid of that stupid junk you keep,
and I'll coach (I didn't think you meant
"couch"?) you on most ways to live
your life. I'll be sweet and hold you in
my loving arms. You can woo me, write me
poetry, write me love letters, and tell me
how pretty I look. I can tell you all about
my days of shopping and ramble to you just
a like a real girlfriend would. You can hang
on my every word. We can have nice romantic
dates on the telephone and at the end of
the night we'll have fantasy sex. This is
a more long drawn out fantasy, an ongoing
type of phone sex relationship.
An Internet Mommy - This is a variation of the fantasy girlfriend
where instead I run your life more like a
mommy. You bring me your problems and I tell
you how to handle them. You ask my permission
for things, and I'll decide if it's ok. I'll
tell you how to handle or do things the right
way. I'll be soft like a mommy, but I also
won't think twice of yelling at you when
you fuck up or land yourself into deep shit.
Then after I've upset you and made you feel
foolish - I'll smoother you in attention
and kiss your wounded ego all better. This
too is a long drawn out phone sex relationship.
We will list some of the other
enjoy as well: ass worship, face
foot worship, body worship, medical
slut instruction, feminization,
strap on dildos, smoking fetish
plugs, cock cages, cock rings,
spanking, adult babies, diaper
and even some mommy phone sex
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A Word to Copycats: I know it's hard - oh
so hard to write your own material, create
your own ideas, and to have a frigging personality.
But don't be a mental gimp and copy my work
or any other webmistresses ya fucking dumbass.
I see such rampant copyright abuse on the
net and I hate "posers". If you
don't know what a poser is - let me explain
by saying "it ain't authentic".
While I will appreciate your idol worship
and imitation as sincere flattery - I don't
want a dipshit using my stuff pretending
to be me. And slaves who turn copycats in
to me get a special prize.